Scorpio and Aquarius compatibility
Two fixed signs: one all feeling, and one all mind.
Scorpio: October 23 – November 21. Aquarius: January 20 – February 18.
Are Scorpio and Aquarius a good match?
Tradition calls it a hard match. Plenty of long loves are built on it, because neither of you gets to fall asleep.
I will not hand you a percentage. A number like that is invented, and a Sun sign is one line of a long letter. Two people of any signs can love each other well.
What draws you together
There is a real fascination here. You are both unusual people who do not care what the room thinks, and you are both harder to know than you look. Each of you finds the other a worthy puzzle.
The hard part
Scorpio wants intimacy without limit, and Aquarius wants a limit. When pressed, Scorpio pursues and Aquarius freezes. You are both fixed, so this can go on indefinitely.
How your signs sit on the wheel
You sit three signs apart, a ninety-degree angle astrologers call a square. You move through the world the same way, but in elements that do not agree. Tradition names this friction, and friction is also how a fire gets lit.
Air and water meet as thought and feeling. One of you wants to talk it through and the other wants it felt first, and that gap is where most of your arguments live.
You are both keepers. Neither of you moves easily, which makes for great loyalty, and for silences that can last a season.
What each of you is really asking
Scorpio is asking: Can you bear all of it, and stay? Scorpio brings depth and fears being betrayed after handing over the keys.
Aquarius is asking: Can I belong to you and still belong to myself? Aquarius brings honest strangeness and fears being absorbed.
The desire under the question
Scorpio wants to get inside. Aquarius wants to stay intact. Ask if there is a door you would both accept.
Finish this line, privately
I want ___ ; I accept ___ ; I will not surrender ___ .
Fill it in about this person. Whatever you write first is usually the truth.
Two signs are only the first line.
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