Aquarius and Pisces compatibility
The one who thinks about all of humanity, and the one who feels it.
Aquarius: January 20 – February 18. Pisces: February 19 – March 20.
Are Aquarius and Pisces a good match?
It is rarely the easy match, and often the educating one. It holds when each of you stops treating the other as a correction.
I will not hand you a percentage. A number like that is invented, and a Sun sign is one line of a long letter. Two people of any signs can love each other well.
What draws you together
You sit side by side. You share a sense that the ordinary rules do not quite fit you, and a concern that goes beyond your own life. Pisces gives Aquarius a heart to come home to, and Aquarius gives Pisces clear air.
The hard part
Pisces wants to merge, and Aquarius wants a door. Aquarius can seem cold when Pisces is hurting, and Pisces's moods can seem irrational to Aquarius.
How your signs sit on the wheel
You sit side by side on the wheel, with no element and no way of moving in common. Older astrology calls this a thirty-degree relationship and says little good about it. In practice, each neighbor holds what the other has just left behind or has not yet reached.
Air and water meet as thought and feeling. One of you wants to talk it through and the other wants it felt first, and that gap is where most of your arguments live.
One of you holds and the other flows. Each is a rest for the other, and each can quietly wear the other out.
What each of you is really asking
Aquarius is asking: Can I belong to you and still belong to myself? Aquarius brings honest strangeness and fears being absorbed.
Pisces is asking: If I dissolve into this, will you hold the shape of me? Pisces brings tenderness without conditions and fears being too much, and then too little.
The desire under the question
Pisces wants to be close enough to disappear. Aquarius wants to be close enough and no closer. Ask where that line is, and draw it together.
Finish this line, privately
I want ___ ; I accept ___ ; I will not surrender ___ .
Fill it in about this person. Whatever you write first is usually the truth.
Two signs are only the first line.
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