Aquarius and Aquarius compatibility
Two people who would like to be alone, together.
Aquarius: January 20 – February 18.
Are Aquarius and Aquarius a good match?
It can be a very good match, and it asks for one thing: that one of you be willing to look at what neither of you wants to see.
I will not hand you a percentage. A number like that is invented, and a Sun sign is one line of a long letter. Two people of any signs can love each other well.
What draws you together
No one else has ever found you so reasonable. You give each other all the room in the world, you share strange ideas and stranger friends, and this can be a very free and very honest love.
The hard part
Nobody comes close enough to get hurt, so nobody comes close. You can both reason your way out of a feeling, and you can both be stubborn about a principle at the expense of a person.
How your signs sit on the wheel
You share a sign, so you share an element and a way of moving through the world. Older astrology treats this as recognition more than ease. You understand each other quickly, and you also share the same blind spot.
Air with air talks all night. The mind is the bedroom here, and the risk is that you can describe a feeling beautifully and never actually have it in front of each other.
You are both keepers. Neither of you moves easily, which makes for great loyalty, and for silences that can last a season.
What each of you is really asking
Aquarius is asking: Can I belong to you and still belong to myself?
You are both asking it, which is why neither of you hears it. You each bring honest strangeness, and you each fear being absorbed.
The desire under the question
Each of you wants to be understood without being intruded on. Ask whether you have ever told the other that you were lonely.
Finish this line, privately
I want ___ ; I accept ___ ; I will not surrender ___ .
Fill it in about this person. Whatever you write first is usually the truth.
Two signs are only the first line.
Bring both birth dates and I'll set your signs side by side, free. If you want to stay a little longer, the Lovers' Ledger opens both charts, the pull between you, and the conversation you keep not having. One reading, $14.
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