♍ Virgo + ♍ Virgo · earth and earth · the same sign

Virgo and Virgo compatibility

Two people who have already noticed what you just noticed.

Virgo: August 23 – September 22.

Are Virgo and Virgo a good match?

It can be a very good match, and it asks for one thing: that one of you be willing to look at what neither of you wants to see.

I will not hand you a percentage. A number like that is invented, and a Sun sign is one line of a long letter. Two people of any signs can love each other well.

What draws you together

Few people appreciate your competence like this. You share standards, habits and a dry private humor, and the small, daily care you exchange is its own kind of romance.

The hard part

The list never ends. You can each turn your critical eye inward, or on the other, and live a very tidy life with very little play in it.

How your signs sit on the wheel

You share a sign, so you share an element and a way of moving through the world. Older astrology treats this as recognition more than ease. You understand each other quickly, and you also share the same blind spot.

Earth with earth builds. You share an appetite for what is real and lasting, and the danger is a life so solid that no one remembers to open a window.

You are both adapters. You bend around each other gracefully, and it is possible for neither of you ever to say what you actually want.

What each of you is really asking

Virgo is asking: Could you love me on a day I do it wrong?

You are both asking it, which is why neither of you hears it. You each bring devotion in small things, and you each fear being found lacking.

The desire under the question

Each of you wants to be loved without earning it. Ask if you have ever let the other see the mess.

Finish this line, privately

I want ___ ; I accept ___ ; I will not surrender ___ .

Fill it in about this person. Whatever you write first is usually the truth.

Both of your dates

Two signs are only the first line.

Bring both birth dates and I'll set your signs side by side, free. If you want to stay a little longer, the Lovers' Ledger opens both charts, the pull between you, and the conversation you keep not having. One reading, $14.

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