Libra and Libra compatibility
Two people who would rather be gracious than be right.
Libra: September 23 – October 22.
Are Libra and Libra a good match?
It can be a very good match, and it asks for one thing: that one of you be willing to look at what neither of you wants to see.
I will not hand you a percentage. A number like that is invented, and a Sun sign is one line of a long letter. Two people of any signs can love each other well.
What draws you together
You make a lovely life. The manners, the beauty, the shared sense of what a partnership should be. Nobody has ever been this considerate to you, and it is a great relief.
The hard part
Nobody says what they want. Each of you defers to the other until the two of you are eating somewhere neither of you chose, and that can go on for years.
How your signs sit on the wheel
You share a sign, so you share an element and a way of moving through the world. Older astrology treats this as recognition more than ease. You understand each other quickly, and you also share the same blind spot.
Air with air talks all night. The mind is the bedroom here, and the risk is that you can describe a feeling beautifully and never actually have it in front of each other.
You are both starters. Each of you expects to set the direction, so the question in this house is who leads, and when.
What each of you is really asking
Libra is asking: Will you still be here if I stop keeping the peace?
You are both asking it, which is why neither of you hears it. You each bring grace, and you each fear being the cause of the rupture.
The desire under the question
Each of you wants peace. Ask what you each actually want, and whether either of you has said it this month.
Finish this line, privately
I want ___ ; I accept ___ ; I will not surrender ___ .
Fill it in about this person. Whatever you write first is usually the truth.
Two signs are only the first line.
Bring both birth dates and I'll set your signs side by side, free. If you want to stay a little longer, the Lovers' Ledger opens both charts, the pull between you, and the conversation you keep not having. One reading, $14.
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