Aries and Aries compatibility

Are Aries and Aries a good match?

It can be a very good match, and it asks for one thing: that one of you be willing to look at what neither of you wants to see.

I will not hand you a percentage. A number like that is invented, and a Sun sign is one line of a long letter. Two people of any signs can love each other well.

What draws you together

You recognize the appetite at once. Neither of you needs to be talked into anything, and there is a particular joy in meeting someone who is not frightened of your speed.

The hard part

You both fight to win, and you both forget by morning, until the one time you do not. Somebody has to learn to stay in the room after the heat has gone out of it.

How your signs sit on the wheel

You share a sign, so you share an element and a way of moving through the world. Older astrology treats this as recognition more than ease. You understand each other quickly, and you also share the same blind spot.

Fire with fire burns bright and quick. There is no shortage of heat here, only of anyone willing to tend the coals on an ordinary Tuesday.

You are both starters. Each of you expects to set the direction, so the question in this house is who leads, and when.

What each of you is really asking

Aries is asking: Will you still want me when I stop running at you?

You are both asking it, which is why neither of you hears it. You each bring nerve, and you each fear being slowed down until the fire goes out.

The desire under the question

You are asking whether someone can match you. Under that, you are asking whether anyone will still be standing here when you finally stop moving.

Finish this line, privately

I want ___ ; I accept ___ ; I will not surrender ___ .

Fill it in about this person. Whatever you write first is usually the truth.

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